Family Snapshot: The G.W. Gowens Family (Graham, Texas, 1912)
The Photograph
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| Colorized version of the original photo |
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| Colorized version of the original photo |
Charity Evelyn (Gowens) Ray (1887-1983) Biography
A Biography of my 3/4 great-grandaunt
Charity Evelyn Gowens was born on August 29, 1887, in Old Silver Valley, Coleman County, Texas, the daughter of General Washington Gowens and Rachel Ann Needham. She entered the world in a rural ranching and farming community during a time when Coleman County was still relatively young, its small settlements closely tied by kinship and shared labor.
Tragedy struck early in Charity's life when her mother, Rachel, died on April 9, 1891, leaving four-year-old Charity and her older siblings in the care of their father. In the years that followed, General Washington Gowens remarried, and Charity became the eldest sister to a large blended family of half-siblings born between 1893 and 1913. Sadly, not all survived infancy—Charity experienced the early deaths of her half-brother Moses in 1893, her half-sister Lola May in 1898, and her half-brother Joseph Calvin in 1908.
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| George Leonard Ray and Charity Evelyn (Gowens) Ray |
By 1900, the thirteen-year-old Charity was living with her father, stepmother, and younger siblings in Justice Precinct 6 of Coleman County. On September 25, 1904, at the age of seventeen, she married George Leonard Ray, a man eleven years her senior. The couple made their home in Silver Valley, where George worked in farming and stock-raising. Their first child, George Washington Ray, was born in 1905, followed by Ida Mae Ray in 1907 and Willis Raymond Ray in 1910.
In February 1914, Charity endured one of the most painful moments of her life when she gave birth to twins, Charity Ann Ray and Jerry Dan Ray, both of whom died the following day. More than a decade later, on March 25, 1926, she welcomed her youngest child, Rosa Evelyn Ray.
The Rays remained rooted in Coleman County throughout their marriage. Census records from 1910, 1920, 1930, 1940, and 1950 document Charity's life as a farmer's wife, raising children, tending to the household, and helping maintain the family's livelihood through decades of economic change, including the Great Depression and World War II.
Charity's life was also marked by the continual bonds and losses within her extended family. She lived to witness the passing of her father in 1945, her husband in 1957, and many of her siblings and half-siblings over the decades. Yet she also saw her children grow to adulthood and establish their own families, and she became a grandmother and great-grandmother many times over.
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| 50th. Wedding Anniversary in 1854 |
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| Gowens' Siblings in the early 1970s |
In her later years, Charity lived in Coleman, where she remained part of the close-knit community she had known all her life. On August 12, 1983, at the age of 95, she died at 11:05 a.m. at the Holiday Hill Care Center in Coleman. Funeral services were held two days later at Stevens Funeral Home, officiated by David Coffman of the Novice Church of Christ. She was laid to rest in Coleman Cemetery beside her husband.
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| Photo by Ralph Terry |
Spanning nearly a century, Charity Evelyn Gowens Ray's life reflected the endurance, faith, and family-centered values of rural Texas women of her era. Her legacy lives on in the many descendants who carry her memory forward.
Written from facts by J. Paul Hawthorne (3/4 great-grandnephew) and AI (ChatGPT) 08/13/2025.
3/4 relationship? Even though Charity was my maternal grandmother’s 1/2 sister (different mothers), Charity’s maternal great-grandparents were also my grandmother’s great-grandparents! This is called pedigree collapse. Maybe 3/4 is not the correct term.
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| Headstone photo by J. Paul Hawthorne 2024 |
In 1827, tragedy struck when William was just sixteen: his mother died in
Jefferson City, Tennessee. Soon after, he moved westward, likely with his
family, settling in Calloway County, Kentucky. There, on his 22nd
birthday—September 22, 1833—he married Martha Brush. Together, they would raise
a growing family, beginning with the birth of their son, Charles Richard Galloway, in 1835.
Over the next decade, William and Martha welcomed several children, including
Elizabeth (1840), J.W. (1842), George Washington (1844), and Caleb Petty
(1847).
William's life in Kentucky was marked by both joy and sorrow. He endured the
deaths of close family members, including his brother George Washington in 1844
and his father in 1846. The most profound loss came in 1849 when Martha passed
away, leaving William a widower with young children.
The following year, William remarried. On March 21, 1850, he wed Mary
Dillingham in Caldwell County, Kentucky. That same year, he is recorded as
living in District 1 of Calloway County. But the winds of change were blowing
once again. By 1851, William had moved his growing family to Texas, settling
first in Upshur County. This journey marked the beginning of a new chapter in
his life as a pioneer in Texas.
In Texas, William embraced his role as both provider and community leader.
Between 1852 and 1861, he and Mary welcomed seven children: Samuel Thomas,
James E., Mary L., Jefferson Rufus, Hulda Ann, Eaton, and William Russell. In
1859, William was appointed postmaster of West Mountain, Upshur County—a
position he held through the beginning of the Civil War, also serving under the
Confederate States in 1861. In the 1860 census, he is listed as a farmer in
Gilmer, Texas, reflecting his dedication to working the land to sustain his
large family.
The Civil War deeply impacted William’s life. His eldest son, Charles
Richard, died in 1862 while serving in Arkansas. The post-war years brought new
beginnings, including a move to Bastrop County, where additional children were
born, including Ruth Galloway in 1871.
By the 1880s, William had settled in the small community of Jeddo, Bastrop
County. He was now the patriarch of a large and extended family that included
descendants from both of his marriages. In the 1880 census, he is listed as a
farmer, and in 1900—at the age of 89—he was recorded as a landlord living in
Justice Precinct 2, Bastrop County. Despite his advanced age, he remained
active in community and family affairs.
William outlived many of his children and siblings. He witnessed the deaths
of George Washington (1888), Jefferson Rufus (1894), and his brother Caleb Cobb
(1887), among others. Through it all, he maintained his position as a respected
elder in his community.
William Samuel Galloway died on July 17, 1901, in Jeddo, Bastrop County,
Texas, at the remarkable age of 89. He was laid to rest in Jeddo Cemetery,
leaving behind a legacy of perseverance, faith, and family. His life spanned
the breadth of 19th-century America—from post-colonial North Carolina to the
raw frontier of Texas—embodying the rugged spirit and resilience of the pioneer
era.
Written by facts from J. Paul Hawthorne and bio from ChatGPT
on 26 July 2025.
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| Graphic from https://www.galvestonhistory.org/ |
Charles Albertson was born on September 18, 1836, in Helsingør, Frederiksborg, Denmark. Raised in a maritime community, Albertson grew up surrounded by the sea, a defining aspect of his early life. At the age of 20, seeking adventure and opportunity, Charles "jumped ship" in Galveston Bay, Texas, an act that would forever change the course of his life.
In the years following his arrival in Galveston, Charles
found himself caught in the tides of history. By 1862, he joined the
Confederate forces during the Civil War, serving in Cook's Heavy Artillery and
later aboard the Confederate Navy's "Bayou City." He participated in
notable events such as the Battle of Galveston Bay, a pivotal Confederate
victory that showcased his maritime expertise.
However, it was an event two years later, on June 19, 1865,
that would become a defining moment in Galveston's history—and the nation's. On
that day, Union General Gordon Granger arrived in Galveston to announce the end
of slavery in Texas, marking what we now celebrate as Juneteenth. For
Charles, living in Galveston at the time, the proclamation was a seismic
cultural and societal shift.
Juneteenth symbolized the liberation of over 250,000
enslaved people in Texas, more than two years after President Lincoln's
Emancipation Proclamation. Albertson, a recent immigrant and Confederate
veteran, witnessed the transformative event and the jubilation and challenges
it brought to the region. Juneteenth became a cornerstone of African American
freedom and resilience, with annual celebrations in Galveston that grew into a
nationwide commemoration.
In the aftermath of the war, Charles embraced a quieter
life. On February 15, 1866, he married Mary Catherine Clair in a Roman Catholic
ceremony in Galveston. Together, they built a family, contributing to the
community he had adopted as his home.
Charles Albertson’s life, spanning the tumultuous years of the Civil War and Reconstruction, reflects the complexities of identity and change.
His journey from Denmark to Galveston intertwined with the unfolding of one of
America's most significant milestones: Juneteenth. While his own story is
steeped in the maritime and military heritage of his era, the broader narrative
of emancipation and justice remains a defining feature of the world he
inhabited.
Today, as we celebrate Juneteenth, we honor the resilience
of those who gained their freedom in Galveston and the generations that
followed. Charles Albertson’s witness to this historic moment underscores how
intertwined individual lives can become with pivotal chapters in history.
Written by his 2nd. Great-grandson J. Paul Hawthorne, using ChatGPT on June 16, 2025.
More info on Juneteenth: https://www.galvestonhistory.org/news/juneteenth-and-general-order-no-3
My grandmother, Maggie “Lucille” (Gowens) Galloway (1913-2008), referred to this as a "Friendship Quilt." Lucille created and assembled the quilt in Texas between 1932 and 1934. She was just out of High School when she started and finished just after she was married. My grandmother would send each square to family members, who would then hand-embroider their name, date, and location onto the fabric before sending it back to her. After she had all the pieces back, she stitched them together.
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| My grandmother's "Friendship Quilt" |
After the death of my grandmother in 2008 in Klamath Falls,
Oregon, it was handed down to her daughter, Juanita (Galloway) Fallon. Last
year (2024) Aunt Juanita gave it to my mother, Faye (Galloway) Hawthorne,
during a family reunion.
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| My mom with the quilt |
There are twenty squares: Four across and five down.
In the following descriptions I will number each square left
to right, top to bottom.
1.
This is most likely Mary (Jones) Bass, the
mother of her sister-in-law, Minnie Bell (Bass) Gowens. Minnie married Lucille’s
older brother, Slyvester Bernard Gowens.
2.
Debra Shaw could be a friend. I have found no
family connections yet.
3.
Rosa
Evelyn Ray is her niece, the daughter of her older ½ sister, Charity Evelyn
(Gowens) Ray. But, Rosa would have been 5 years old, so maybe it was completed
by her mother?
4.
Mrs. Charlie G. Ray is her older sister, Charity
Evelyn (Gowens) Ray. Note: She is also the same person in square #15.
5.
Nadine is her niece. Daughter of her older sister,
Stella Vera (Gowens) Perry.
6.
Lena Georgia (Gowens) Perry is her older sister.
7.
Frances Delilah McCallister is her niece.
Daughter of her older sister Lena (Gowens) McCallister and Henry Matt
McCallister.
8.
Nota Mae (Phariss) is her maternal 1st.
cousin. Daughter of her maternal uncle Joseph William Phariss and Maude Mae
Close.
9.
Crystal Elizabeth (Gowens) Reedy is her older
sister.
10. Mother
is her mother Frances Emily (Phariss) Gowens. I am not sure why it says “Lubbock.”
They lived in Crosbyton, which is almost 40 miles east.
11. Cordie
Loraine Gowens is her older sister.
12. Lora
Eva (Atchison) Gowens is her sister-in-law. The wife of her older brother
Clarene Preston Gowens.
13. Maude
Mae (Close) Phariss is her aunt-in-law. The wife of her maternal uncle Joseph
William Phariss.
14. Minnie
Belle (Bass) Gowens is her sister-in-law. The wife of her older brother
Sylvester Bernard Gowens.
15. Charity
Evelyn (Gowens) Ray is her older sister. The same person as in square #4.
16. Tishe
[?] Bass. I have not identified this person yet. There is Theresa (Davis) Bass,
wife of Henry Bass, who was living in Crosby County at the time.
17. Virginia
Lea Reedy is her niece. Daughter of her older sister Crystal Elizabeth (Gowens)
Reedy and Charles Leslie Reedy.
18. Lila
Mae Reedy is her niece. Daughter of her older sister Crystal Elizabeth (Gowens)
Reedy and Charles Leslie Reedy.
19. Sarah
S. (Millican) Perry is the step-mother-in-law of her older sister Stella Vera
(Gowens) Perry. Clyde Perry’s step-mother.
20. Juanita
Linsly[?] I have not identified. Could be a friend. But, my grandmother’s
maternal great-grandmother was Emily (Linsley) Phariss who died in Coleman
County, Texas. There may be a connection there.
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